Adoption After Pregnancy Loss

 Pregnancy loss is a tragic turn of events for anyone. It often happens suddenly and unexpectedly, even when you have done everything you were supposed to do. In the wake of this devastating loss, it is not uncommon to wonder if you will ever be able to have the family you desire.

After a period of reflection, many expectant parents consider adoption after pregnancy loss. If pregnancy loss has resulted in the inability to have a safe pregnancy or has resulted in wanting to create your family through a different avenue, adoption can be a good option. 

The adoption process, while challenging, can also be very rewarding. You’ll need to navigate the adoption process thoughtfully. The adoption journey looks different for everyone - it may involve working with an adoption agency, may involve the foster care system or it could be a journey you navigate on your own. The timeline for adoption varies case by case. 

Is adoption after pregnancy loss right for you?

Let’s take a closer look.

Does a Pregnancy Loss Change the Adoption Process?

Each state has its own licensed agencies that are responsible for the home study process. 

The adoption process does not change in any way based on your history of pregnancy. If you have attempted to grow your family biologically and have experienced a pregnancy loss or infertility, this may be a part of the conversation during the home study process, but is not a factor in whether or not you will be approved to adopt. 

Knowing If You’re Ready for Adoption After Pregnancy Loss

There are no special rules when it comes to adoption after pregnancy loss. You can start on the process as soon as you feel ready by connecting with an adoption agency in your area. Another way to begin is to talk to an adoption attorney you trust about your needs and the ways in which you hope to build your family.

One of the most important things about adoption is timing. The adoption process takes time to get underway. This times allows for prospective adoptive parents to learn about the nuances of adoption and to build their support network and gather resources they need.

After losing a pregnancy, it is essential to take the time to mourn and feel the grief that comes with that loss. Allowing yourself to feel your emotions will help you connect with the inner strength you need for this next step.

Only you can decide whether now is the right time to adopt. If you have a partner, be sure you are both in agreement. 

An Adoption Attorney Helps You on Your Adoption Journey

By starting your adoption process with advice from an adoption attorney you can rely on, it becomes easier to find the resources that are right for you. That includes help choosing an adoption agency that understands your needs and connecting with any local, state, and national programs that may help.



Modern Family Formation has helped thousands of families throughout Virginia, Maryland, and Washington, D.C. find their path through adoption or assisted reproductive technology. Contact us  to get truly compassionate insight from an expert who cares about your success.